Fishing Love

Yesterday a friend of mine shared his views on why he rather remain single after he has been out of an 8-years relationship. Just another one of those conversations with regards to the 'biggest problem and also meaning in life' - the thing we call 'LOVE'.



The one true thing that most of us seek to find, or at least want to feel some at some point in time or another.

What he said was "It is hard to get back the same feelings as it was before". And true to that, it might never be like it was before. What to do, heart already pecah into gazillion pieces... take time one mah.



Well, sometimes taking time is not that bad after all... it just means that we are taking a break... and in time, some of us may realize that we have enough breaktime... and some still busy wandering and taking our time getting out of love.



To those that have put in the key in the ignition and wants to start the journey once again... I know how it feels. It feels like you don't know where to go, and maybe you don't even know why you're doing this again. Well maybe it is because of this.

"Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy.
Love is never boastful, nor conceited, nor rude;
It is not self-seeking, nor easily angered.
It keeps no record of wrongdoing.
It does not delight in evil,
But rejoices in the truth.
It always protects, trusts, hopes, and preserves.
There is nothing love cannot face;
There is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance.
In a word, there are three things that last forever:
Faith, hope, and love;
But the greatest of them all is love."

Seem like a hell lot to swallow. Seems like you can't coz it doesn't sound that simple and you know what happened the last time right? In your mind it says... 'yeah right!... wtf they left out the last sentence which is...'

But the most painful of them all is also love.

LOL. Its ironic. Something so great can be so destructive. But I think the question is 'is love so bad?' or 'are we just too weak' to take it in as a whole, with its good and with its bad.



Can we compromise with one another?



Do you want to understand?



Are you ready not to understand but just accept our differences?



Are we in denial still?



Are you ready?



If fail just say this loh..



For those that are getting married... are you ready to take this path together no matter the outcome?



Maybe grow old together?



Or you want to stay in misery?



Well I should say chill la brother and sister. We might have lost our pride, our hope, our faith .. but one thing we still have is choices. And choices are fun.



Well, just make sure you make them and don't regret.



So what you waiting for? Banyak banyak ikan bilis in the ocean leh. Lets go fishin =)



But make sure you know what you put as bait lah. I have no idea that one. Go figure -_-"